I’ll be honest – I don’t really think anyone wants to read yet another article about New Year’s Resolutions. But I feel I have an obligation to share with you what I learned years ago that has proven time and again to truly work.
Many of us experience plenty of stressful emotions during the holidays for myriad of reasons. We may feel overwhelmed and stressed from travel, company, or excessive shopping; we are nostalgic or depressed for those we may have lost or miss; we feel exhausted and guilty from excessive imbibing and/or the breaking of our routines. Therefore, the chance to redeem ourselves as we turn the calendar to another year gives us hope, and stamina, for a healthier and happier future.
But how many past “resolutions” do you remember making? How many of them did you actually fulfill? The one resolution in my past that I actually remember, and that I have followed through with to this day, was in 1992 when I resolved to quit drinking soda. I was never a huge soda drinker, but living in Atlanta, home to Coca Cola, with an abundance of those adorable little chilled glass bottles in the fridge, I am sure I drank my fare share. I remember my reason for giving up soda was stated something like, “drink more water to improve my health”. My then-recent diagnoses of Crohn’s disease the previous year had already seriously taken its toll on my health and I was open to whatever I could do to have the upper-hand in my well-being. I believe the success of that resolution came in the way I thought about it and spoke of it – in both the positive and in the present tense. Instead of saying, “I am going to quit soda”, I instead stated that “I drink only what nourishes my body and keeps me healthy.” Does this mean I never fell off the wagon? Nope. But it did slowly sink in to my sub-conscious, and in a short time, and to this day, I stopped liking the taste of soda.
Positive intentions create a positive reality. A summary of Lao Tzu’s teachings stated that “our thoughts become our words; our words become our actions; our actions become our habits; our habits become our character; and our character leads to our destiny.” Let that sink in for a moment.
So how do we create true positive intentions that ultimately create our destiny? We use words that are positive, present-tensed, and personal. Instead of pushing our desires into the future, state them as if they are happening now, even if it sounds silly. Do so with a positive spin vs negative. For example, instead of saying “I’m going to stop eating junk food and lose 15 pounds”; rephrase this to say “I will maintain an optimum weight for me by eating only healthy and nourishing foods.” See the difference? Keep it personal by stating, for example, “I live in peace by surrounding myself with positive and peaceful people within my environment”. This replaces a vague wish for world peace, or a desire to stop being negative all the time. These semantical differences have a large impact on our psyche, which eventually sinks deep into our conscious and creates real change.
Over the years I have practiced and lived by these principles. My life has not unfolded simply or easily, but the dreams and aspirations that I have held close to my heart have come to fruition in more beautiful ways than I could have ever planned or dreamed. I believe we can all use more personal, positive and present-minded thoughts and intentions in our lives. You can’t change the past, but you can change the direction of your future. Why not start creating the life you truly want to live now?
ps…If you would like to create a positive vibe through the use of a beautiful universal mantra for peace, join us for Shanti 108. This is a community event practiced in the sanctuary of your own space. A 108 day practice for peace realization. 10 minutes each day consisting of chanting the Om Asatoma Shanti Mantra 8 times and then 8 minutes of stillness as you receive and give the powerful vibratory affect of this mantra in silence.
Om Asatoma Sadgamaya – In realization of our infinite peace and connection, I am led from the unreal to the real.
Tamasoma Jyotirgamaya – From the darkness to the light.
Mrutyoma Amritamgamaya – From the poisoin to the nectar.
Om Shanti Shanti Shantihi – Om Peace Peace Peace
The last line repeats the word peace three times to deepen and expand our experience of peace from heart to heaven and everything in between. Peace in your heart, peace in your relationships and community and realization of the universal peace that never ends.
This is a beautiful experience of present, positive and personal intentions for peace. Thanks to Stephanie Adams of Flow Yoga, our community in the Gorge and throughout the world is beginning this today, 1/8/15. You can start anytime!